Thursday, May 8, 2014

Book Review - The Fifth Funeral by Terryl W. Elliott

The Fifth Funeral by Terryl W. Elliott
"In 1876 a boy is born who will link over 150 years of history to the present.

While its cast is filled with many famous and infamous figures, William Warnott's story is really one that reflects both the tragedy and triumph of an American life.

His story is unique primarily due to the whims of coincidence and longevity....Otherwise, it could be the story of an ancestor belonging to any one of us!"

Growing up in Eastern Jackson County, Missouri, in the 1960's, stories about the Civil War, Order No. 11, Frank and Jesse James, William Quantrell, and others, were the norm. The war had been fought, and ended, only a hundred years previous, and just about every family we knew had a relative, an event, or a story of some kind, that related back to it all in one way or another. The stories were always exciting and, more likely than not, captured the imagination of whoever happened to be listening at the time. Thus, my love of local history and lore was born.

As a child, the stories of Frank and Jesse James were so prevalent and real, that 'the boys' as they were often referred to, felt more like family than the bushwhackers, thieves, and killers that they were made out to be. (In the circles I grew up in, they weren't viewed that way at all!) And everybody had an opinion as to whether it was really, in fact, even Jesse James that Bob Ford killed that day in ol' St. Joe. What about J. Frank Dalton? Wasn't it possible that, in reality, he really was Jesse James? Maybe Bob Ford didn't kill him after all. So many questions. So many opinions as to what could have been, and as to who was who and what was what. Like all the others, as I grew up and studied things out on my own, I had my own thoughts and formed my own opinions. But, it was this book that I'm about to tell you about that totally changed my thoughts and opinions forever.

The Fifth Funeral - A Suspicious Tale Of Bushwhackers, Outlaws And Longevity by Terryl W. Elliott is the story of William Warnott and his connections to Jesse James. Mr. Elliot (the author) first met William Warnott on October 28, 1995, when they both attended the fourth and, hopefully, final funeral and reburial of Jesse Woodson James in Kearney, Missouri. Jesse had been dug up (again) by some folks who were trying to prove, once and for all, using DNA and other modern forensic techniques, that he really was who he was supposed to be, and put all the rumors, myths, and legends to rest.

At the time of this first meeting I don't think Mr. Elliot realized what an adventure he was about to embark upon, but, as the story unfolds, it becomes quite clear that, in Mr. Warnott, Mr. Elliot, did indeed, discover a treasure trove of historical information that, quite frankly, blew this reader's socks off!

The Fifth Funeral is only 97 pages long, but oh! What a tale it tells! After their initial meeting at Jesse James' funeral in Kearney, Mr. Elliot made arrangements to visit with Mr. Warnott and his family near Holden, Missouri a few weeks later. At that meeting Mr. Elliot met with, and interviewed, Mr. Warnott, who claimed to be 119 years old at the time. The story that William Warnott tells, and Mr. Elliot unfurls in the pages of The Fifth Funeral, is both amazing and spellbinding. When it's over, it is completely up to the reader to believe Mr. Warnott's story or not, but, I, personally, believe every single word of it, and, for me, it takes all those thoughts and questions about Jesse that I've struggled with in my own heart and mind since childhood, and lays them to rest once and for all.

About The Author -

"Terryl W. Elliot is a writer, poet, and historian whose work has appeared in various local and regional publications. This is his first book. He lives in Independence, Missouri with his wife, Sharon, and their dog and cat."

A Personal Note -

I found this book through my daughter, Amanda. She works at Watkins Woolen Mill State Historic Site, which is right next door to the James Farm at Kearney. Amanda met Mr. Elliot when he visited Watkins Mill a while back, and, if I remember correctly, gave her a copy of The Fifth Funeral. Amanda read the book in an afternoon, aloud, to me, over Skype. It was so good that I ordered a copy of it from the Jackson County Historical Society to share with my husband and my dad. My husband devoured the book upon arrival, and my dad and I plan to spend an afternoon in which to read it through together soon. I highly recommend this book to anyone who is interested in Civil War, Missouri, Jesse James, or outlaw history.

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Wednesday, May 7, 2014

Cottage Blueberry Porridge (E)

Cottage Blueberry Porridge (E) Single Serving
When I first saw this recipe I didn't think it sounded good at all, but, after trying it, it's turned out to be one my favorite Trim Healthy Mama breakfasts thus far. I usually serve it two to three times per week.

COTTAGE BLUEBERRY PORRIDGE - E

1/2 cup frozen blueberries
1/2  cup low-fat (1%) cottage cheese
1 cup cooked oatmeal 
a pinch of sea salt 
1 tsp. cinnamon 
sweetener to taste (I use 2 packages of Truvia.) 

Place blueberries and cottage cheese into food processor and process until smooth.

Place hot cooked oatmeal into a breakfast bowl. Add cinnamon, sweetener, and sea salt if it wasn't added during cooking.

Garnish with the blueberry cottage cheese mix to the sides of bowl that contains the oatmeal. Don't mix it with porridge, but scoop some up with each bite. Yum-my!!!

#thm

Tuesday, May 6, 2014

Sauerkraut - Six Weeks In The Making






Finishing Up The Sauerkraut
Back in March, I shared a post with you about my daughter and I getting together to make sauerkraut. At the end of that post we had just put our freshly jarred kraut under the house to ferment for six weeks. We got together last Tuesday to finish the process.

We started out with 22 beautiful jars of fermented cabbage. When we brought them out from under the house, they were perfect!

We washed the outside of the jars, removed and cleaned the caps, refilled the jars with hot water (some always bubbles out during the fermentation process), recapped them, and processed the jars in a hot water bath.

I was a little disappointed, however, because, during the hot water bath process, we ended up losing four jars of kraut due to breakage. I know what happened to the first two jars (my own negligence), but I really don't know what happened to the second two. I'm wondering if, like everything else, they just don't make canning jars like they used to. Whatever the cause, a total of four jars broke during the hot water bath process and, in the end, we only ended up with 18 jars of finished sauerkraut.

We split the 18 jars between the two of us, giving each household nine jars of kraut to enjoy. Even at that, due to the fact that we don't eat it very often, the kraut will probably last both households for quite some time. I plan on getting some turkey bratwursts to enjoy a jar of ours with soon. Another thing that's good cooked and served with sauerkraut is a nice pork roast. Will have to think about that, too! :)

How do you and your family enjoy sauerkraut? Does anyone else out there make their own? If so, I'd love to hear about your experiences!

Until Next Time...
~Rebecca

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#sauerkraut

Monday, May 5, 2014

Taming The Tongue

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It seems that one of the biggest problems that we, as women, face (myself included) is controlling our tongues. Do we not realize that God sees and hears all, and that we will be held accountable for every idle word spoken?
 
In Matthew 12:36 and 37 Jesus tell us, "But I say unto you, That every idle word that men (and women) shall speak, they shall give account thereof in the day of judgment. For by thy words thou shalt be justified, and by they words thou shalt be condemned."
 
In the book of James we find that true faith is evidenced by our words. James 3:3 and 4 liken our tongues to the bit in a horses's mouth, or the little rudder that controls a whole ship. Verses 5 through 12 go on to say, "Even so the tongue is a little member, and boasteth great things. Behold, how great a matter a little fire kindleth. And the tongue is a fire, a world of iniquity: so is the tongue amongst our members, that it defileth the whole body, and setteth on fire the course of nature; and it is set on fire of hell. For every kind of beasts, and of birds, and of serpents, and of things in the sea, is tamed, and hath been tamed of mankind: But the tongue can no man tame; it is an unruly evil, full of deadly poison. Therewith bless we God, even the Father; and therewith curse we men, which are made after the similitued of God. Out of the same mouth proceedeth blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not so to be. Doth a fountain send forth at the same place sweet water and bitter? Can the fig tree, my brethren (my sisters), bear olive berries? either a vine, figs? so can no fountain both yield salt water and fresh."
 
The footnote I have on James 3:6 says, "James emphasizes our inclination to sin in our speaking. Sinful speaking includes harsh and unkind words, lying, exaggeration, teaching false doctrine, slander, gossiping and boasting. Mature believers keep their tongues under control by the guidance of the Holy Spirit, taking "into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ" (2 Cor. 10:5). Because of the tendency to sin with the tongue, James exhorts every person to "be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath" (1:19)."
 
What kind of things do we harbor deep down in our hearts? What kind of dark things lurk there? In Matthew 12:34 Jesus reminds us that "...out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh."
 
Do you ever think about that? I do. I have always had trouble controlling my mouth, especially in times of turmoil, upset, and stress, and, on many occasions...even just recently...I have said terrible things that I have had to go back and apologize, and ask forgiveness, for. I realize full well that I cannot move forward in my walk with the Lord if this is the route that I continue to choose to take over and over again. And when we choose to just say what. ever. without keeping our tongues in check, it makes us look spiritually ridiculous, and, because we are His witnesses on earth, it puts a black mark on Jesus, too.
 
I invite you to take a moment today to talk to the Lord about your own tongue and what it's been saying lately. Let us pray for one another and recommit our lives, and our tongues, to the Lord's service. 

A good rule of thumb to follow is the words of Philippines 4:8...
 
"Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things."
 
I challenge you to judge the conversations that you have with others by Biblical criteria. When your phone rings, or when you're visiting with someone in your home, or theirs, or elsewhere, ask yourself these questions, "Is it true? Is it honest? Is it just? Is it pure? Is it lovely? Is it of good report?" If it's not, then don't be afraid to speak up and say, "I don't want to hear this." 
 
And, keep in mind, like I said earlier, no matter what you, or I, or any of us say, or do, God sees and hears all. Someday we WILL give an account for the words we speak, and the actions we take, today.
 
Why do you think God called us, as women, to be keepers of the home? I Timothy 5 gives us the answer. Sins of the mouth were (and still are) so serious that the church was to refuse widows under the age of 60 (see verse 9). In verses 11-15, Paul tells Timothy, "But the younger widows refuse: for when they have begun to wax wanton against Christ, they will marry; Having damnation, because they have cast off their first faith. And withal they learn to be idle, wandering about from house to house; and not only idle, but tattlers also and busybodies, speaking things which they ought not. I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully. For some are already turned aside after Satan."
 
Wow!  Idle? Wandering about from house to house? (This doesn't necessarily have to be physically either...modern communication...the telephone, chat boxes, texting...all these things have made wandering from house to house, oh! so easy!) Tattlers? Busybodies? Speaking things they ought not? Is THIS the kind of women we want to be? Is this the kind of women we are CHOOSING to be? Is this the kind of witnesses that we're making for the One Who shed His blood for us? And, even if it has been in the past, or is at present, does it mean that it has to continue? Of course not! There is no time like the present to repent of sins of the tongue and turn that ship around!  

Until next time...

All My Love,
~Rebecca <3


 

Friday, May 2, 2014

Five Minute Friday - Mess

Five Minute Friday

Five Minute Friday is a special time set aside each week where, as our hostess and inspiration, Lisa-Jo Baker, puts it, "We write for five minutes flat. All on the same prompt...no extreme editing; no worrying about perfect grammar, font, or punctuation. Unscripted. Unedited. Real." 

Today's prompt is mess. So...here...we...

Go!

It's just after midnight and my BFF just left. She had been here several hours and, in that time, we discussed a myriad of subjects...plans for her daughter's upcoming graduation from nursing school and the party to follow, our roles as Christian wives, Scripture verses to speak over our marriages, our hopes and dreams for the future, our fears, our failures, our pasts, and about what a mess we both are. (I giggled when I saw Lisa Jo's prompt.) 

My BFF and I met in 2004 and, as we were getting to know one another, we found it totally bizarre that, for whatever reason, she and I have lived many of the same experiences...trod the same path...made the same wrong choices that resulted in identical outcomes that weren't wrong at all, but precious and dear to our hearts...except we did all these things ten years apart and in two totally different places.  We discovered that, in many ways, we both still live messed up lives as a result of the choices that we had made in the past.

But what we're also finding is this..despite all our fallings and flailings and failings...despite all our messed up messiness...and because of it...Jesus is there. He is able to take these messes that we've created and do something with them. And He can do it for you, too. 

Jesus knows how to pick up all those broken pieces of our messy, messed up lives and put them back together again. Jesus is the glue that cements broken hearts and broken lives and broken relationships together...making them stronger than they ever would have been otherwise, and He can turn our messes into something beautiful...and He has...and He does.

My BFF and I? Yes, we're messes. But we're great, big, BEAUTIFUL messes that have hearts for the Lord, and we trust Him to do what we can't. And that is to create beauty out of ugly...create calm in the midst of chaos...and to weave all those messy stands that we call "life" into a tapestry fit for the King. 

As I typed this I was reminded of this poem from long ago...

THE MASTER WEAVER'S PLAN

My life is but a weaving
Between the Lord and me;
I may not choose the colors–
He knows what they should be.
For He can view the pattern
Upon the upper side
While I can see it only
On this, the under side.
Sometimes He weaves in sorrow,
Which seems so strange to me;
But I will trust His judgment
And work on faithfully.
‘Tis He who fills the shuttle,
And He knows what is best;
So I shall weave in earnest,
And leave to Him the rest.
Not ’til the loom is silent
And the shuttles cease to fly
Shall God unroll the canvas
And explain the reason why.
The dark threads are as needed
In the Weaver’s skillful hand
As the threads of gold and silver
In the pattern He has planned.
~ Benjamin Malachi Franklin

Stop!


Until Next Time...

~Rebecca

Thursday, May 1, 2014

Book Review: Women Living Well - Finding Your Joy In God, Your Man, Your Kids, and Your Home by Courtney Joseph

Women Living Well by Courtney Joseph
"Women desire to live well. However, living well in this modern world is a challenge. The pace of life, along with the new front porch of social media, has changed the landscape of our lives. Women have been told for far too long that being on the go and accumulating more things will make their lives full. As a result, we grasp for the wrong things in life and come up empty. 

Mommy-blogger Courtney Joseph is a cheerful realist. She tackles the challenge of holding on to vintage values in a modern world, starting with the keys to protecting our walk with God. No subject is off-limits as she moves on to marriage, parenting, and household management.


There is nothing more important than fostering your faith, building your marriage, training your children, and creating a haven for your family. Women Living Well is a clear and personal guide to making the most of these precious responsibilities."


I have just finished reading Courtney Joseph's Women Living Well - Finding Joy in God, Your Man, Your Kids, and Your Home, and I got so much more out of it than I ever thought possible. Page after page...chapter after chapter...I was astounded at the depth of spiritual wisdom and insight that radiated from the pages of this beautiful, and well-written, book.

The book has 226 pages. Each of the four main sections are comprised of five chapters each, and covers, not only a woman's personal walk with the Lord, but her marriage, her parenting, and homemaking. Courtney's love for, and her commitment to, Jesus, and her close, personal "Walk with the King" comes shining through in every chapter.

I recommend this book to Christian women everywhere...young or old...no matter what season of life they might find themselves in. There is, literally, something to be gleaned for everyone!





"COURTNEY JOSEPH is a long-time Bible study leader and founder of  WomenLivingWell.org and WomenLivingWell.tv and cofounder of GoodMorningGirls.orgCourtney is a graduate of Moody Bible Institute. She is married to her high school sweetheart and homeschools her two children."